Hi my name Brett Tellez. I would not consider myself an hero until i read some of the chapters in this book. My grandma raised her 4 children plus my cousin. My uncle had my cousin when he was young and couldn't properly raise him or his daughter. My grandma raised his two children plus me when my dad was working and my mom was flying. She broke her hip while my mom and her siblings were around the age of 12 and shes been in a wheel chair since. My grandma always had discretion about morals and standards. Raising three more kids in a wheel chair i could tell my mom venerated her dearly. As time went on my grandmas fake hip got infected and her health wasn't in great condition. She was put in the hospital by the time i was in high school. My mom and her dad thought they needed more room and space so they moved out to Nevada. I must admit making the trips out there was tough during the school year but i didn't complain. It takes four hours to drive up to where she lives plus traffic. I get lethargy from the trip up plus the fact we always go up to visit when its really hot. My grandparents do have an ac but they rarely turn it on. Doing homework and studying there was not the best environment. A couple years passed and i was a junior in high school and my mom had just gone up to visit my grandma. I received a call from my cell at 1:30. My grandma had passed. It hit me hard but not as hard as it did to my mom and my grandpa. My dad drove up with me that weekend to help my mom and grandpa come to terms with her death. I remember my grandma always said i was a good swimmer so once a week in honor of her i go swimming once a week at any pool or the beach. I visit my grandpa now more than ever to make sure he's doing okay and to keep him company. He always retrospects about his youth i try to keep him off the topic but he handles very well. Now every time i visit my grandpa i always imagine my grandma watching t.v. waiting for me.

Death is hard to deal with but , just know that your grandma is in a better place and she's always with you no matter what she's your angle (: , keep your head up and just remember everything your grandma taught you .
ReplyDeletePretty sweet how you have your own tradition of going swimming once a week to honor her life! She proably looks down at you everytime you go swimming saying " this is the best part of my day". That day she told you , you were a good swimmer must of been a special day! MAY SHE REST IN PARADISE!
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how in honor of her you go swimming for her! Make sure you continue to be there for your grandpa and your family, they need your support! Keep your head up you have an angel watching over you !
ReplyDeletei can relate to you because my grandmother recently passed away too and it hurts not seeing her anymore but i thought about what she seen me go through and importantly graduation was such a great thing for me and her because when I looked at her she had a smile on her face because she was so proud of me. So just think about this she will always have your back and will always look over you. Also My condolence to you and your family.
ReplyDeletei think you a big hero because you took the pain and learned how to deal with it im so sorry your grandma passed away and i know shes there with you all times !!
ReplyDeleteIt is good that you visit your Grandpa often. My mom and I make a twice a month visit with my Great Aunt and Uncle form my her side of the family,
ReplyDeleteIm sorry to hear about your grandmother, by honoring her is very great!
ReplyDeletenow that its your grandfathers turn, spend all the time you can and enejoy every moment with him.
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Wow Bret I think its amazing how you handeled your grandmas death, I knoe its tough to loose a grandma cause I lost mine in 2010.. but most of all I think its tough having to move back and forth I mean I moved away to iowa for like 3 months but I missed la too much and we Drove back that wasn't fun at all it was hot and long soo my respects to you for putting up like you did..
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